What is blowjob? Pijpen is the Dutch name for blowjob. More and more it occurs as foreplay. Here we explain what blowjob is and how it works.
What exactly is a blow job?
Often we don’t know exactly what a blow job is. Is it just putting a penis in your mouth and moving around? What is a blow job? Sucking is taking or licking the male genitals into your mouth. The English name is blowjob.
Is blowjob also sex?
Blowjobs are oral sex in men. The mouth is used to stimulate the penis, causing the man to cum. The tongue and lips are used to stimulate the penis, glans and balls. Each man has his own preference for the way to be sucked and what he likes.
There are different positions to give a blow job. The easiest and most comfortable position is when the man lies on his back and the woman lies or sits between his legs. There is a lot of freedom of movement and the woman can decide how deep to go and what blowjob techniques to use.
Why women love blowjobs
Men love to be sucked. Only the ladies from whom we love it don’t all love the act. Some women really love it, and why is that? They love to have total control over the man’s sexual pleasure for a while. The man has to surrender completely.
In addition, they also like to make the man happy and show with this how much they love him. It is all about power and control.
Preparation for the blowjob
Before the blow job begins, it is best if the penis is clean and washed. If the balls and the area around the penis are also going to be stimulated, it is useful to make sure that this area is depilated. You are doing a woman a huge favor here and preventing unpleasant odors.
Also make sure that the person who is going to suck you off has not brushed his teeth beforehand. You might think this is hygienic, but the opposite is true. Just by brushing your teeth you can cause small wounds in the gums which can cause you to catch a virus during the blow job. The advice is to leave at least an hour between brushing your teeth and giving blowjobs.
To further reduce risks, you can at least get vaccinated against hepatitis A and B.
Blowjobs without a condom or with a condom
Sucking without a condom can be much more pleasurable and enhance the sensation compared to sucking with a condom. Direct contact of lips and tongue with the bare penis without the intervention of rubber for optimal pleasure. For ladies who give blowjobs without a condom
Sucking without a condom carries risks just like fucking without a condom despite being a smaller risk. Keep in mind that without a condom you are not protected against STIs.
If you are both sure you have no STIs there are no risks in sucking without a condom.
Blowjobs and Deepthroating
Taking the penis completely into the mouth is called “deepthroating. The penis goes deeper into the mouth each time and even a little bit into the throat.
It is a more difficult blowjob technique to master properly because it can make you gag because the penis can go very far down the throat which is obviously not the intention.
For many women, deepthroating is scary. For the man, deepthroating makes his device feel very big and gives a very big kick. When deepthroating is done correctly it can give a tight and wet feeling and also create more excitement.
Blowjob burn a lot of calories
Yes, believe it or not research has shown that with a blowjob you burn a lot of calories. A woman can burn up to 100 calories per half hour with a good blow job. That’s more than half an hour of cycling or yoga.
How long does a blowjob last?
How long a blowjob lasts varies greatly. There are many variables involved such as stamina, personal preference, arousal and more.
It also depends on how well a blowjob is given. It is very nice when the woman knows exactly what you like about your penis and how to handle it.
Research has shown that a blowjob should not last much longer than seven minutes. For the man the duration will not be so bad, but especially for the woman who will get bored and start thinking about other things than sex. The moment of arousal is then lost.
Especially if the blow job is used as foreplay, it shouldn’t take too long either and it would certainly be a shame if you have already cum during the blow job.
Getting off with a blowjob
Being sucked can make you cum. When blowjobs are used as foreplay, the intention is not to cum. Of course, it can happen unexpectedly and spontaneously.
Getting ready during blowjobs can be done in several ways. It is wise to agree in advance how you are going to cum. For example, you can spill all your cum in her mouth, but you can also spurt it all over her face, which can be incredibly horny.
Just keep in mind that if you squirt semen in her face you both have to be clean again first to continue the love game. Or you use it as an ending, so you can have a nice shower together afterwards.
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