Always wanted to know how to flirt with a woman? Discover here proven tips on how to easily flirt with women so they will like you.
How to get started.
It’s incredible how powerful flirting is. It is without a doubt one of the best skills you can learn to change your life with women.
Flirting is not about what you say, but how you say it. It is not difficult if you know what to do. With proper flirting, you get that hot sexual attention that women want to respond to.
Now should you compliment her, say something sexy, stand close to her or even touch her. There is a lot of confusion about how to make the first move.
A simple technique is to flip the script. Simply look carefully at everything she says and does and look for opportunities to misconstrue it as if she likes you. Then accuse her of flirting with you.
Recognize flirting signals
Body language is the most important aspect of flirting. Women will not be so quick to show that they like you, but they will give different signals. It is then up to you to recognize these flirtation signals, or in other words, you must be able to read their body language.
Most of what we say happens nonverbally. So communication happens mainly with your body and so she will also express with her body what she is thinking. So listening to body language is an important factor.
For example an open attitude toward you means there is interest, and if she is closed with her arms and legs crossed and turning away from you she does not feel comfortable with you or in other words you are boring to her and there is no interest.
Give compliments to flirt
Women love compliments. So start the conversation early by giving compliments and show that you mean it sincerely. They catch on in no time if you give a compliment you don’t mean. Make sure it comes across as natural and smooth and not as if it is made up.
Do not initially give compliments that relate to her appearance. Tips to give compliments about include her eyes, her smile or style.
Giving a compliment is also ideal for starting a conversation instead of asking a boring question. A good compliment is personal and compliments her femininity and her character.
Don’t give her too many compliments either, as this can make you come across as “needy” and be seen more as a “friend. After all, you don’t want to end up in the friend zone.
Teasing women
You know the saying “Teasing girls is asking for kisses. Flirting is not only attracting but also repelling or teasing. If you put a woman on a pedestal and continuously treat her like a princess she will no longer see a challenge in you.
She wants excitement and challenge. Exactly by teasing a woman she will be stimulated and challenged. Tease in such a way that you do not hit a sensitive chord.
The right choice of words makes a world of difference.
It is a crucial factor for successful flirting with women.
Secretly, many women engage in playful behavior. Some examples you can use to tease her are:
– Giving her a nickname
– Fooling her into thinking she can’t do or say something
– Falsely accusing her
– Treating her like a child
Don’t tease her on topics such as clothing, obesity, girlfriends or education level. After all, you don’t want to hurt or offend her.
Imagine a woman takes your teasing the wrong way and you get a negative reaction. Then don’t back down right away, be a real man and change your perspective. Put your comment in a different light and this way you show that you are not a slacker.
Subtly flirting with women
For some people, flirting is very easy and also always goes well. Subtle successful flirting starts with making the other person think they have made the first move, while you have taken the initiative. There is no one way to flirt with women.
You can use eye contact to flirt very subtly and at the same time, you use it to arouse interest by looking at each other. One tip is to try looking at her for 1 to 2 minutes and keep it up. It will feel uncomfortable for a while, but try not to look away. In fact, research has shown that this type of eye contact causes feelings to increase, which is exactly what you want.
When you stop looking at each other don’t look down or up. This will make you look insecure or arrogant.
You can also subtly imitate another person’s body language. This nonverbal signal is as much as 5 times stronger than starting with verbal flirting. Of course, don’t do it too conspicuously, but very subtly.
Flirting and attraction
Flirting can be learned by anyone. With flirty conversation, women are going to like you. A flirtatious conversation always has a purpose. This could be for a relationship or just for sex. Also keep in mind that sometimes women just flirt out of kindness and you shouldn’t look for something behind it right away.
With a good flirtation phrase, you make sure you are more interesting than her surroundings and don’t get boring job interviews. Answer her questions with a story around them instead of short answers. This will give you more context and also make it a little more personal. Also incorporate emotions into your story for more excitement and color.
Also, make sure you come across as confident. This is what a woman finds attractive. Uncertainty drives a woman away. Although you may feel so insecure inside, that is not a bad thing at all as long as you do not start reacting to your own nerves. Body language and voice play an important role here. If you feel insecure, don’t talk too fast and make sure you don’t look down.
When flirting, men will often act tougher and women will act more girly. As a man, you often take the first step to woo her and flirting is the way it starts. It is precisely by taking action and becoming active as a man that you get more results.